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FA Obsession Collection / Re: Neer allows Allan to return to FA

« on: February 27, 2014, 12:30:11 am »

Just as everyone thought the line of bad decisions made by Neer will end...

when did anyone ever think this

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Weasyl Wankfest / Re: PARTYING WITH THE BRAND

« on: January 31, 2014, 05:24:56 pm »

It's gonna be a good puppy bowl, folks. look at some o these pups

#TeamTaser

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Scandal! / Re: Ren Queenston gropes people in their sleep.

« on: January 24, 2014, 05:50:18 pm »

Pretty important to the story, Nishimura made a really long and detailed post further explaining their relationship with Queenstion. 3 days ago. I wasn't paying attention at the time, oops.

Also important, Queenston has finally acknowledged that their fan-base is collapsing, and made a complete non-apology. [Back-up]

I feel as though I should say something about the current situation, but have been unsure of how, and still am. I don't feel as though I fully understand my problems yet. any issues I have with how things are happening right now aren't things I can talk about because I know they will be emotionally charged and I know because of my tendencies I would put myself first. between my parasomnia and emotionally manipulative tendencies, I have a wealth of issues that I must address and understand before I can properly say anything and know that I'm saying exactly what I mean to, and that includes apologies I sincerely need to give. a good friend confronting me directly after I took my leave gave me the clarity I needed in that regard. I want to assure people that I'm aware of and working on things and that this is where I am focusing myself right now. I never set out to hurt anybody and I'm really concerned for the well being of the people that I have hurt.

I am taking am extended break from the internet and people in general for the safety of myself and others, so I can be clear and understanding of so much more and attend therapy more regularly. the scariest thing for me right now is knowing that I'm not fundamentally malicious, but have inadvertent malicious tendencies. I am not disappearing and not putting this behind me.

I am aware that this message is about me, but to understand this better, focus and awareness of me and my habits is what I need to do.

I'm sorry and I'll talk to you soon

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Scandal! / Re: Ren Queenston gropes people in their sleep.

« on: January 19, 2014, 10:28:11 am »

They/them are their preferred pronouns, that's all.

Couple of chat logs posted by Nishimura. For the first time, a look in to how Queenston's dealing with this; an attempt at turning it back around on the victim.

Sure I assaulted you, but what about my feeeeeeeelings.

And an LJ post by another of Queenston's victims. Actually felt kinda sick reading this.

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Scandal! / Re: Ren Queenston gropes people in their sleep.

« on: January 18, 2014, 07:53:34 pm »

A tumblr ask post from Ren's AD tumblr dated Jan 2013, one month after the first assault incident:

I forget the actual name of it, but sexual activity with someone who's sleeping, or being the one sleeping?

that’s somnophilia

turn off / not my thing / haven’t thought of it before / cool / cute / hot damn / TURN OOOOOOON / TAKE ME NOW

i’ve engaged in this ACCIDENTALLY more than a few times with my partner. i’ve had times where i’ve woken up rubbing and groping them and didn’t even know i was doing so and things just went from there. it’s often clumsy and awkward but fun in a kind of “so dazed and out of it” way. i know this seems weird right after my post about drugs and sex being a no-no but you can snap out of sleepiness a lot easier than you can snap out of being drunk/high lmao

i love the idea of being on either end of this, and really like the idea of waking up in the middle of it and hazily enjoying the rest of it, or having the receiving partner do the same.

Their emphasis. Not sure if the bolding is meant to be their answer on a scale or something??

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Scandal! / Ren Queenston gropes people in their sleep.

« on: January 18, 2014, 01:56:39 pm »

(TW: sexual assault)

So, A. Nishimura of the internet has recently come out against furry music machine Ren Queenston regarding multiple sleep-fondling incidents. This began yesterday with a text file uploaded to puu.sh and linked through twitter. A snippet from the tumblr post:

as background:

ren and i were in a fairly sexual relationship, not a romantic one. we had our boundaries, but our most prominent one was “ask before any touching is done”. i have post-traumatic stress disorder, relating to a lot of sexual trauma, and when i am touched unprovoked, i am “dead in the water”. this boundary was placed in december of 2012 because ren experienced it first-hand with an event i can’t talk about now.

with this background, here is what i want you all to know:

ren has a self-admitted problem with groping people when they think they’re sleeping. they acknowledge that what they did to me was wrong but mention going to therapy for it, something that i, as the victim, am not comfortable with.

they also mention it being something they do in their sleep, but i find that bogus because of finer details during the actual groping state to me that ren was awake the entire time. i do not trust them in this situation, because they have betrayed my trust regarding being up front with things with me before (see below)

during the times when ren would visit, this so-called “sleep-groping” problem would happen a multitude of times—my PTSD makes it hard for me to remember specific numbers, but a ballpark estimate of how many times it’s happened to me is 10-15 (in two visits).

now, ren has admitted that they were aware of the problem when it occurred, but they did not elect to speak to me, their (at the time) sexual partner and (at the time) friend. this is troubling at its base level, but becomes a little more troubling when you remember that they are aware that my PTSD renders me immobile.

ren had one year to tell me that cuddling with them might be unwise because of their self-admitted “sleep-groping” habits, but did not do so and did not make any move to do so during the time i knew them. during that one year, i did not receive any communication regarding their “sleep problem”, despite the faith i put into them when another event happened, one i’m not comfortable reiterating now.

ren says that they’re seeking therapy for the events in question and for their “sleep problem”, but they told me the same thing when they did something to me the first time. i trust that they’re trying, but for the sake of your safety and my peace of mind, i’ve made this post so people are aware of the situation.

in short:

ren queenston has a tendency to touch people sexually in their sleep. be aware of this.

this is troubling, to say the absolute least. but that’s why i’m making this post, to raise awareness. they need to learn, and leaving them alone for a year for them to “get treatment” did not help the first time, and i doubt it will help now.

they need to be held accountable for their actions.

Their emphasis and links.

Shortly after, a close friend of Ren's came out in defense of the victim on tumblr (page has since been blanked.)

The twitter proof screenshots in this post were taken from me. I was the first person Ren actually admitted this to. Ren was my closest friend during the latter half of 2013 and, up until today, still was. They had me convinced that Nishi was manipulating and abusing them, but from what ive heard from Nishi _after_ ren flat out admitted raping Nish to me via twitter DM, i began to realize and see the abuse and manipulation Ren had on me, Nish, and everyone else.

I’m publically denouncing Ren Queenston right here, right now. They are a narcissist and abuser, and are _still_ trying to excuse their behavior, even tho all of their closest friends are turning on them, including me.

Nishi is being actually rather kind with this callout. From what i’ve heard from them and from other people, this isn’t an isolated incident. NIshi is not the first person Ren has raped. But it is up to those victims to come out about it on their own.

My twitter is softvoid. Because of the interactions ive been having all week with ren before nishi actually came out about it, i’m going to be actively trying to inform people about what has happened. Ren had been trying to manipulate me to turn against Nishi for _days_ before Nishi actually came out about this, and i had almost sided with Ren because i had ___no____ context, no fucking idea what was actually happening.

I cannot give details, obv, it is not my place. But if you need someone to confide in if Ren has abused you or someone you know, please DM me on twitter.

Ren's twitter account is currently protected, and I can't find much of their side of the story at the moment.

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Scandal! / Re: Grisser and the bad-touch....

« on: December 26, 2013, 01:51:35 am »

Markwulfgar's reply is probably the worst one. http://markwulfgar.tumblr.com/post/69827354192/psa-warning-grisser-please-reblog
Not just victim shaming but outright saying he'll never have any more friends after this. Wow.

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FA Obsession Collection / Re: Furaffinity leaks - An Ex-Admin speaks out about the terrible state of FA

« on: April 10, 2013, 10:28:45 am »

Haha - the people over there seem more focused on whether you use "extend paw" in a document than the mass of content released.

Yeah, about that. You really would see more "progress" come out of this if you just stick all your logs in a .rar and let people comb through them, without commentary. Most of the things you've put logs to are things that are already well known. Like with the note leak, the most damning evidence was found when released to the masses.

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FA Obsession Collection / Re: FA's new "Commission Info" tab is released half-finished and broken

« on: April 02, 2013, 05:51:21 pm »

It would've been "Pushed live early" or "Pushed live never" if history's any indication. (It is.)

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FA Obsession Collection / Re: FurAffinity Holds a Town Hall

« on: November 19, 2012, 11:43:42 pm »

Wow, the Weasyl desperation must've hit 'neer pretty hard.
Can't wait for 99% of these things to not happen/make the site worse.

Although it's pretty interesting that new people are being let in on the code. I'll have to revise my Yak/Dragoneer fanfiction/conspiracy theory.

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Fuck-Awful Art / Re: Dunning-Kruger meets Crowdfunding - Furry Kickstarters Thread

« on: September 13, 2012, 04:34:01 am »

oh i'm dumb.

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Fuck-Awful Art / Re: Dunning-Kruger meets Crowdfunding - Furry Kickstarters Thread

« on: September 09, 2012, 07:26:50 pm »

http://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=93139375&searchtext=furry+wars

some choice comments

Why is yiffing in the comments not allowed? As a dedicated yiffer community member I am very upset about this. I don't see how I can support a game with such a narrow-minded view of the furry community. By limiting your comments in such a way you have alienated a good majority of the furry community.

I really don't want to get banned, but I don't like feeling bullied for being a who I am. I'm male, 15, and bi, and I wear mouse ears, tail and facepaint everyday to school (sometimes I like to be a horse, just to mix things up). I get picked on alot, and people are always telling me where I can't go, what I can't do, what I can't say... you get the idea. It's just not fair.

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Scandal! / Syphon's fake wife and fake son are fake killed in a fake car accident

« on: August 27, 2012, 10:03:55 pm »

On August 24th, FA user Syphon posted a journal stating his wife Arina and infant son Sergei had been killed in a tragic car accident by a texting teenage driver.

My wife and infant son were killed in a car wreck last Friday. They were in a car with Arina's mother and brother when a highschool-aged kid was texting on a phone and missed a red light and ran into the car they were in on the side they were on. Sergei was killed instantly, so at least I have some solace in knowing my son didn't suffer. Arina... she held on just to see me one last time, so we could say goodbye to each other in the hospital.

Standard furry tragedy response ensues. However, the internet soon became suspicious when searches and direct requests of funeral arrangements, news stories, or obituaries came up empty.

Some awfully extensive internet sleuthing ensued, eventually revealing that no accident had taken place, and later that Arina and Sergei had never existed at all. It came as a shock to few, as nobody had ever seen a picture of her or the two of them together, though he apparently carried out an entire internet life for her.

Syphon caved two days later when presented with the evidence and posted a replacement journal owning up to his monumental fuckup and announcing he'd be leaving for an "indefinite period of time" and at the time of posting is blanking both his account and that of his make-believe wife.

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Fuck-Awful Art / Re: Bestiality Songwriter

« on: August 12, 2012, 11:25:25 pm »

every time i come to viv i end up regretting it.
every time.

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Scandal! / Re: Scappo tracing dramabomb.

« on: August 12, 2012, 11:07:05 pm »

hey guys remember that there's a big difference between referencing something and directly tracing it
thank you for your time

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Scandal! / Re: Sciggles Farts and So Do You

« on: July 17, 2012, 05:58:03 am »

if it was "delivered anonymously", couldn't any random fucker ask for it to be taken down then? there's no signature on the picture.

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Scandal! / Re: Sciggles Farts and So Do You

« on: July 13, 2012, 11:43:36 am »

Administrator
Posted On: 07/13/12 02:35 pm

This art was created expressly for the user, and was delivered to them anonymously. Should the artist come forward and dispute this claim, they may file a trouble ticket, or speak with the user directly. Thanks for the concern!

there you have it, folks. apparently "posting anonymously on an imageboard" is a method of delivery! who knew.

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News Media / Re: New Jersey BBQ canceled after "inappropriate" fursuiter conduct

« on: July 03, 2012, 01:23:49 pm »

Herbert said the couple, who could not be identified, engaged in “inappropriate behavior.”

haha, that's the lawyer council member samonte Cc'd my email to. I was pretty clear that i was just looking for info on some rumors in the email, but this has me wondering.

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FA Obsession Collection / Re: A possible second FA note leak

« on: July 02, 2012, 11:58:59 am »

Anonymous splinter group Murrnonymous

okay past that, i haven't heard anything about this other than a couple posts on a lulz thread. and arcturus isn't exactly the most reputable source to get information from. that might just be like, my opinion though.

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News Media / Re: New Jersey BBQ canceled after "inappropriate" fursuiter conduct

« on: June 25, 2012, 05:29:54 pm »

It does sounds really defensive but if anyone's going to push the topic with her it won't be me.
If you wanna contact her or the attorney all their info can be found on that link ben posted.