Generally in any fandom you go through a progression. Early on, it's going nuts partying, buying stuff, maybe attending panels. If you stick around long enough, it eventually becomes about hanging out with friends with a relaxed attitude. Maybe you don't even care that much for the fandom at that point, but it's a convenient annual meeting point, and you can still pop your head into the dealer's room and look around briefly. You save your energy and chill.
Peganthyrus is a nice enough person from what I've encountered, but has a better-artistic-aspirations-than-you attitude that comes and goes. The VCL Sieve, for example. Given that her animation work was for John K., who's
pretty blunt about his opinions toward the fandom, I wonder if it had any effect on her attitude as well.
In terms of fandom associations vs. porn vs. professional career, I've heard mutually conflicting claims. Some folks whose bosses didn't really give a fuck (show up and do your work) and some where it didn't go over well. I think what employers want is for their employees to get the work done and act professional. If you've got stuff going on the side, it's best that it stay there, as separate from your day job as possible. Herbie Bearclaw is an animator who got burned when some of his (pretty tame) porn and beefcake sketches leaked out. I don't know if anyone remembers when Wookiee/Nakira's adult art on Furnation would occasionally vanish without notice - it's because his
brother, a professional animator working on motion pictures, would catch shit over it. But then I've heard of other part-time furry artists holding down art, animation and illustration jobs with no problem.
On the subject of this year's FC, a really negative con report turned up in
this podcast, the segment from 10 minutes in to 33 minutes. All the people in the podcast are Furry Fiesta staffers. Kyo (the one giving the report) is the most annoying and useless contributor of them all - but he really surprised me here by being more informative and coherent than pretty much
everything he's said in the last dozen podcast episodes combined. Not counting the episodes where he was away, which were blissful. It's good to hear he's got a critical mind, when he makes the effort to turn off the twink. The podcasters don't seem to be aware that the problems mostly stem from FC's staff turnover policy.
(Edit: added link to brother)